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It’s no secret that Asian Americans face ignorant and uninformed stereotypes every day in this country.
So, we recently asked Asian people in the BuzzFeed Community which stereotypes they’re sick and tired of hearing.
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As a Samoan woman, I know Polynesians face a lot of stereotypes in the US. So I wanted to give Asian people the chance to call out the stuff they deal with, too.
Here’s what they had to say:
1.“That we’re all East Asian. Asian Americans can come from many different backgrounds and colors.”
2.“As an Asian man, I hate the stereotype that we all have small penises.”
3.“‘Wow, I’m surprised you don’t have an accent.'”
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“Well, ignorant ones, I was born and raised in America. Just because my family is from Vietnam doesn’t mean I have to speak with an accent. If anything, I have more of a Southern twang from being raised in the South. Stop assuming things! You just sound uneducated, ignorant, and racist!”
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4.“The number one stereotype that used to bother me all my childhood was the ‘smart nerd.'”
5.“That Asians eat dogs.”
6.“That all our interracial couples are comprised of an old white perv and an Asian woman looking for a cash machine.”
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“I’ve been confronted with this stereotype throughout my childhood, sometimes indirectly, sometimes very directly: ‘Did your dad order your mom from a catalogue?’ The disrespect for both of them makes me sick.
And it’s often disguised as some first-world concern for Asian women, when in fact, it’s the racist belief that an equal partnership is unimaginable. I can’t even imagine how hard it must’ve been for my parents when they first got together. They’re actually quite a good match, come from similar social backgrounds with similar jobs, and are almost the same age. I feel like society’s disapproval and unwillingness to actually look beyond the stereotype and learn the truth has impacted their happiness severely, and I think it’s sad and unnecessary.”
–Anonymous
7.“I’m sick of being told that I’m ‘exotic’ as if it’s a compliment.”
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“I’m not a bird. The continent of Asia is home to 59.76% in the world population according to Google, so I’m not rare because of my ethnicity.”
–Anonymous
“If one more person calls me ‘exotic,’ I’m gonna hurl.”
8.“The stereotype about Indians that annoys me the most is that we’re always eating curry.”
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“Very few of our dishes actually have the word ‘curry’ in them; most of them have actual names. Curry just refers to something wet to add to the carb portion of your meal. And all the stereotypes about spicy Indian food and diarrhea are disgusting. Indian cuisine is seriously varied. We have completely different spice palettes in every state, and the reduction of that to ‘spicy and diarrhea’ is not cool.”
9.“That all Asians are the same, and we speak the same language.”
10.“It’s frustrating to see ‘Asian representation’ in media when it’s a thinly veiled Orientalist trope, or the Asian character perpetuates white worship.”
11.“I am so tired of being told that men like submissive Asian women.”
12.“I’m tired of a variation of the model minority myth: the idea that things are so much better because we immigrated to the US.”
13.“That Asian countries are underdeveloped and not as advanced as the US.”
14.“I hate the stereotype that Asian women are bad drivers. I drive a manual car.”
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15.“That all we eat is food from the country our family came from.”
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“I’m part Asian, and I eat spaghetti and chicken as much as a white person.”
–Anonymous
16.“That we can’t see very well because of our eyes.”
17.“That Asian women are super kinky and wild in the bedroom.”
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18.And finally, “Constantly being asked ‘What language do you speak?’ or ‘Where are you from?'”
If you’re Asian, which stereotypes are you sick of hearing? Share your thoughts in the comments below.
Note: Some responses have been edited for length and/or clarity.